Social Situations Tips
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Employee Gift Exchange
Pass out pre-addressed index cards to each person. Have everyone write down their three favorite gift categories on the blank side of the card. (For example, books, CDs and gourmet cookies.) Collect and fold the cards so that the names don't show. Have each participant pick one of the cards from a basket. If the person picks her own card, have her put it back and pick another. Ask each person to keep the recipient's name and the category chosen a secret.
Office Parties: Be a Gracious Guest
An excellent way to show your appreciation for being invited to a party is to arrive on time. Speak with your boss (or bosses), socialize with co-workers and try to mingle and meet some of the guests that you don't know.
When being introduced to someone, make sure you look the person in the eye, and greet them with a firm handshake. (Keep your right hand clean and free to shake hands. It helps to balance your food, drink, and napkin in your left hand to prevent having to switch items from hand to hand.)
Office Parties are Business Functions
Even though the music is playing, food and alcohol are being served, and people are laughing – the office party is a business function. Keeping this in mind before your every action can only lead to successful behavior.
Charity Event for the Holidays
For a change of pace, try a company celebration that captures the holiday spirit —an event, party or carnival with proceeds going to a charity. Select a local charity with whom to plan a volunteer activity. Employees can decide whether or not they want to have a party or donate the money that would be used for the party to a charitable organization instead.
Help! I Don't Know Anyone at This Party!
One way to approach a roomful of strangers, is to pick out someone who is alone or looks friendly and introduce yourself. Something along the lines of "Hi, I'm Jane and I haven't met anyone here yet. How do you know our host?" should work wonders.
Office Collections
In some offices, collections are taken up so often they're resented. When this happens, discuss the possibility of a department kitty, where everyone chips in five or ten dollars at the beginning of the year to be allocated as the need arises.
Eat Before You Imbibe
If you know you will be partaking of alcoholic beverages, eat a little something before you go to the party, or have some food when you get there - before you imbibe. Moderation in drink is the best approach at a company event.
Price Range of Office Gift
Decide on a reasonable minimum and maximum dollar value for each gift by conferring with your supervisor. Keep in mind that most people are on a budget. Inform your group of the gift's price range during a planned meeting and ask if there are any objections.
Party Attire
If the party is being held away from the office determine what is the proper attire before you and your companion arrive. If the party is formal, wear formal dress. Women should wear conservative party dresses. Leave the revealing and bright colored dresses for strictly social affairs and not the office party.
Alternative Ideas for Company Parties
Instead of the traditional evening office party, consider hosting a breakfast, brunch or lunch that will allow employees to include their families in the festivities. Better yet, follow up your early-in-the-day party with an early dismissal --a gift most employees will surely appreciate.
Clients at a Company Party
If you have clients that are attending your company party, remember they are your responsibility. You should stay close by, make sure they have plenty to eat and drink, and introduce them to the most important people.
Party Planning: Involve Others
If employees are reponsible for putting together a party or event, make sure there are enough individuals involved. To ease the work load, contract outside providers for services such as catering, tending bar, florist, disc-jockey, etc.
Send Invitations Out Early
Send out invitations or a memo at least three weeks prior to office events. If the event or party is being held away from the office, be sure to include thorough directions. Make sure the RSVP date is included on the invitation.
Work Appreciation
Make sure you chat with your co-workers and tell them how great it was to work with them all year. Remember to thank those that worked with you on projects throughout the year.
Do Your Pre-Party Homework
One way to speed the ice-breaking process at an event where you don't know the other guests, is to learn what you can about them before the event. Ask the host to brief you about their occupations and interests. Then when the big day comes, you'll be better prepared.
Party Ideas: Choose a Theme
Choosing a theme is very helpful in making other decisions related to the party (such as invitations, food, centerpieces and other decorative or ambience related factors).
Once a theme has been selected, decide on a color pallette that complements the theme.
Drinking in Moderation
While at an office party, avoid salty, greasy, or sweet foods. These tend to make you thirsty, giving you an excuse for having an alcoholic beverage. Instead, eat foods that are rich in starch and protein. These stay in the stomach longer and slow the absorption of alcohol in the bloodstream.
Office Party Behaviour
With a little too much to drink or in the spirit of seasonal abandon, co-workers may exchange personal secrets or make or accept amorous overtures for which they'll hate themselves in the harsh light of the workday. The safest way to avoid such embarrassment is to be aware of its possibility and stay in control. Limiting your drinking is a starting point. And it should go without saying that the use of any illegal substances at a party won't be tolerated.
Don't Overindulge at Company Parties
Office parties are a strange mix of social pleasure and office politics. Avoid drinking too much. Over-indulging may be the number one cause of inappropriate remarks and behavior at office parties. Remember: you have to face all these people when you go back to work, so leave a good impression.
